Do you need STI testing if you’re in a monogamous long-term relationship?

When you’re in a monogamous long-term relationship, you might think it’s safe to assume you don’t need STI testing.

However, the truth is that being in a committed relationship doesn’t necessarily guarantee protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). STI testing is still important, even for people in monogamous relationships.

In this article, we’ll discuss how STIs are transmitted, the benefits of being in a monogamous relationship when it comes to STI prevention, and when you should still be concerned about STIs.

How STIs are transmitted

Let’s start by discussing how STIs are transmitted.

STIs tend to be transmitted through vaginal, anal, or oral sex, even if you or your partner are not experiencing any symptoms of infection. Certain STIs can also be transmitted through simple touch.

For example, Herpes Simplex Viruses can be passed on by touching an open sore. Syphilis can be passed on by touching a Syphilitic chancre. Some STIs can also be passed on through kissing.

Many STIs, such as HIV, Chlamydia, and Gonorrhoea can be asymptomatic for long periods (or completely asymptomatic altogether), making it harder to know whether or not you or your partner are infected. Furthermore, a monogamous relationship doesn’t guarantee protection from STIs if one or both partners have had unprotected sex outside of the relationship.

It’s also possible for one or both partners to be infected with an STI and be completely symptomless before entering into a new relationship. This can potentially cause problems if symptoms of an STI appear during the relationship, even if no sexual activity outside the relationship took place.

Unfortunately, if one or both partners are infected, it isn’t possible to know which partner got the infection first.

The benefits of being in a monogamous relationship for STI prevention

Being in a monogamous relationship does have its benefits when it comes to STI prevention.

If both partners are exclusive and infection-free at the start of the relationship, the risk of contracting an STI is low. There should be little to no opportunity for an STI to be transmitted to either party through sexual activity.

Moreover, couples can choose to undergo STI testing before they decide to be sexually active with each other. Getting tested before having sex can provide peace of mind and prevent any possible transmission of STIs.

When to be concerned about STIs

Now, you might be wondering when you should be concerned about STIs in a monogamous relationship.

A good rule of thumb is to get tested for STIs at least once a year, especially if you or your partner has had multiple sexual partners in the past or if you’re unsure of their STI status.

Additionally, if you or your partner have any symptoms, such as unusual discharge, itching, or pain during sex, you should get tested right away. Also, if you have unprotected sex with a new partner, it’s important to get tested for STIs after the encounter.

Final thoughts

In conclusion, though it has its benefits, being in a monogamous relationship doesn’t automatically prevent the transmission of STIs. It’s still important to get tested, even if you’re in a committed long-term relationship.

Understanding how STIs are transmitted, the benefits of being in a monogamous relationship when it comes to STI prevention, and when to be concerned and get tested can help protect yourself and your partner against STIs.

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